You should have things you don't do, places you don't go to, substances you don't take, words you don't say
By all means, have Principles and Standards.
We need the next generation of girls to be taught about PCOS, Endometriosis and all related. They can't get the same "just take panadol" energy we got. Next thing you're being rushed to surgery for things that were sidelined for years.. I hope it gets better for them..
You must live with the conviction that Allah loves you, wants to forgive you, doesn't desire hardship for you, intends ease for you, will compensate you with better, gives you grief to mature you, isolates you to enjoy your company alone & place trials to humble you. Be patient.
In har Allah zai iya ajiyewa jariri abincinsa a nan, toh kar ka taba tunanin abincinka ko arzikinka na hannun wani ba Allah ba.
Ka saki kowa ka kama Allah.
Shi kadai Ya san hanyar da zai bi Ya baka.