STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.
pride has ruined more relationships than mistakes ever did. i don’t want perfection, i want someone who can communicate, apologize, and repair instead of turning every issue into a standoff.
It’s always the ones you’d do anything for who treat you like you’re nobody. They abuse your soft spot until it’s no longer there, mistaking your deep love for weakness.
maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
too much pride is a dealbreaker these days for me, i need to know you can come back and communicate and apologize and fix it not make a mess of it instead.