normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
It’s crazy when you finally realize being alone might actually be the safest way to live. You get older and start accepting that maybe that “forever person” just isn’t out there. People too busy being selfish, chasing attention, stuck on exes, or still healing from wounds they never admit they got. Then you meet one that halfway wants you enough to keep you around, but not enough to build with you, and they play tug-of-war with your peace. We really live in a generation where being toxic is normalized and loyalty is rare. It’s sad when being single feels like the only way to protect your mind, your heart, and your peace. Relationships used to mean something now it’s lies, ego, and temporary vibes, and what hurts most... Knowing exactly what you bring to the table… but realizing nobody’s even built enough to sit down and eat with you. 🤌🏽👏🏽💯‼️
I had a realization a few years ago that I don't need to figure out why this person is doing a certain behavior I dislike. All that matters is I know I don't like the behavior and I can leave