men are EXTREMELY selfish and will always, always put themselves and their feelings FIRST. Which is why women should always do the same. You’ll never regret it.
I stayed by your side long after I knew I wasn’t supposed to be there anymore. I ignored red flags, made excuses, and kept giving chances when I should’ve been leaving. So for that, I take accountability. That part was on ME.
y'all be out here taking peoples presence for granted.. like their absence won't hit heavy. they wont always take you back, as a friend or partner.. stop letting society trick you into thinking everybody's energy is replaceable.. it's some ppl whose vibe is so rare you only get blessed w/ that once in a lifetime.. and your gonna miss out
i hope i never date a narcissist again. My feelings were invalidated all the time. Everytime i spoke up on how i felt, it would be an argument. Everything i did was wrong but they was always right and doing everything "perfectly". I would react to how they would treat me and they would call me crazy & childish... shiiiitttt looking back at that situation that person made me get out of character so many times & hurt me the most. MADE ME LOOK LIKE THE BAD GUY. AND nos the disrespect i dealt with is crazy.
For some men, losing an incredible woman feels like freedom.
Not because she was the problem, but because now they don't have to face themselves. They can go back to their old habits, their half efforts, their emotional immaturity, and call it peace