I used to think communication was everything, until I realized understanding is. You can say all the right words, but if the other person doesn't truly hear you, it's just noise.
people lack accountability, then be like "you could've just talked to me". no, i couldn't. you don't listen. you deflect. you gaslight. you make me feel like i'm the problem for bringing it up. so no, i stayed silent to protect my peace, not because I didn't want to fix.
Getting yo shit together requires a deep level of honesty wit yourself , you gotta be able to look at yourself in the mirror & be willing to accept flaws & behavior that's not allowing you to grow , self evaluation is difficult but it's extremely necessary.
when I was watching insecure in my early 20s, I remember thinking “how are these bitches almost 30 still going through this”
at 29…baby I underSTAND do ya hea me!