Niggas want you to prove your worth to them in order for them to treat you right. Worst mindset to have with me cuz im not auditioning for treatment i know i deserve. The minute you pursued me was the minute you knew my worth. Don't play w me.
I NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR gave up on nobody I dealt with. I TALKED AND TALKED TO Them TO FIX CERTAIN THINGS and when it didn’t get fixed I LEFT simple ..Nobody is going to repeat THEMSELVES EVERYDAY nor are people going to wait forever to get what they DESERVE.. The most selfish and manipulative thought process a person can have is to think you can treat people any kind of way and expect them to be there( saying that’s love and loyalty), then when they leave you say they gave up on you 🥱. Naw you didn’t apply yourself, for what you thought you was ready for. Keep it a buck with yourself, if nothing else💯‼️I only COMPLAINED BECAUSE I CARED once I stop caring it’s over ‼️💯
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
I’m so embarrassed by all the pathetic and desperate shit I’ve done in an attempt to feel loved, and I’m more embarrassed that nothing has ever worked.
I really have to be careful with the attention I give to men because my curiosity and ability to make people feel seen has given me stalkers, narcissists, & mimics who don’t value me as a person, but are obsessed with the way I love and how I make them feel. I’m too charming without even trying.
When you decenter your life from the idea of being in a relationship and focus on elevating yourself, you realize how many goals, opportunities, and accomplishments are waiting for your attention. Your fulfillment in life becomes rooted in your growth, your purpose, and the person you’re capable of becoming.
The biggest lie we’re told as little girls are that men are natural born leaders and protectors. I’ve never been protected by a man, and i have needed protection from men. In my personal experience they’re the most emotional in the room. No matter the room is this...
I think I’m going through a phase right now, like I’m finally coming to terms with actually letting a lot of things go…. Weather it’s friends, family, relationships, feelings, fears, just any and everything. it’s literally time for new beginnings, with new chapters that bring happiness, peace, love & good memories. it’s just time to move on with my life.