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[Lola Okunrin @lollypeezle]

If you remove my wife from my life this past 72 hours, I fit kpeme.

We have been moving houses and everywhere is so scattered like mad but once I ask “where is my blue boxers with duduke painting”, she will go straight to the point. “Uhmmmn, it should be in the yellow bag beside the bed”. What of my green comb with black tattoo? “It is inside the black box on the shelf”.

Women actually own the home. I feel like an alien. With how scattered and overwhelming my life is, she still has every detail in her head. Obirin 🙌

[Miriam Ogbonna @miriamogb]

You cannot BUY love.

This statement is TRUE.

But it doesn’t mean you should be STINGY when moving to someone you like.

Efforts … sometimes requires money. 🙏

[𝕌𝕘 🥀 @UgWrites]

Face-to-face conversations will save your relationship. Voice calls & voice notes will too.

There’s a huge difference between hearing the words your partner says & reading a text.

In the heat of an argument, texts are terribly misread.

A saying goes, "The reader detects the tone of a text." Meaning the reader can easily assign a tone you never intended, especially when emotions are running high.

Typing crap and arguing behind a keyboard only builds resentment and can eventually lead to a breakup.

The moment a misunderstanding hits the deck, end the chat and call your partner.

The more you text, the heavier the explosion becomes.

A partner who genuinely wants peace will seek clarity.

A partner who keeps texting just to fuel the provocation is choosing conflict over resolution.

[folahanisbored @folahanmiofHD]

If you can see this, please don't scroll past. I have fully hit rock bottom🥺Nothing is working, but I can work.i am highly educated, skilled, and ready to work immediately in any of these fields

[Ms.K @mskmalibu]

I’m FOREVERRRRRRRR praying that I get my fairytale ending.. the dream career. the financial freedom. the friends. the family. the peace. the love... just everything that I truly & genuinely deserve

[𝓓𝓮𝓵 @delonperc]

POV: Dating a Narcissist

"I would never do that to you." proceeds to do exactly that and blame you for reacting

[Kush @kush_147]

"they used you" Nah. They had access to a love most people spend their lives looking for. What they did with it is their story. I still have more to give

[Kush @kush_147]

It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity

[Ìléríolúwa @Ilerioluwakiye_]

Dating-to-marry doesn’t mean I’m dating you to marry YOU.

I’m dating you to see if I want to marry you.

But that’s a conversation nobody’s ready for.

[✒️ @Literariium]

Forever traumatized by realizing that no amount of love can change someone who finds losing you easier than facing their own behavior.

[Nnenna @Aunty_naya]

Omo my break up last year, remain small I go tell aboki for street.

Nobody wey I no tell 💀💀💀💀💀😭😭😭

Guys. Heart break can kill someone.

[Odunmadeit @ODUNMADEIT]

Once you start your relationship with house visits, you'll never really experience real dates or fun outings, ile le ti ma rira everytime.🤦‍♀️

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

There's a certain humiliation in admitting you want to be loved. It feels like handing someone a map to all your soft spots and hoping they don't press too hard. But there's also the fear of being pitied, of someone mistaking your longing for weakness. And even when love reaches you, there's the ache of not knowing how to hold it properly, how to give it back without fumbling. Sometimes, you end up hurting the very people you care for, and the guilt doesn't go away just because it wasn't your intention. And above all, there's the unbearable discomfort of being seen as vulnerable like someone might notice the cracks in you before you've even learned to live with them yourself. It's exhausting, being a person.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

I don't care for nonchalance. Please point me to the lovers, the yearners, the poets, the men who send long paragraphs and the women who will send a long paragraph back, the triple texters, the gifters. Point me to the people who love love and are not afraid to show it.

[Dura,coco money 🎀 @ms0nigghaz]

Like you were genuinely my favorite person.

If anything happened, you were the first person I wanted to talk to about it. When I needed help, comfort, reassurance or even just someone to listen, it was always you I thought of first.

When I wanted to shop, I wanted your opinion. Before going to sleep, I wanted to hear your voice. When I prayed, I prayed for your safety too, asking God to wake you up the next morning. On bad days, just the thought of having you in my life made things feel lighter somehow. And when I felt alone, your presence comforted me in ways I can’t even explain.

That’s why I hate breakups so much.

Because how am I supposed to bond with someone that deeply all over again? How do you go from making someone part of your everyday life to acting like they no longer exist?

[Dura,coco money 🎀 @ms0nigghaz]

I think one of the saddest things about going through too many disappointments is that when something good finally happens to you, you don’t even know how to accept it properly.

You become so used to things falling apart, people changing, promises failing and happiness being temporary that you start waiting for the bad part even while things are still good.

You’ll smile and still secretly wonder when everything will go wrong.

You’ll be loved and still question if it’s real.

You’ll receive good news and still feel scared to get too excited because life has taught you that sometimes things are taken away just as fast as they come.

It’s like your mind no longer knows how to rest in happiness because it has spent too much time surviving disappointment.

[𝕊𝕒𝕞𝕞𝕪 @FromN5_]

stuck between "i really want to talk to you," and "i really need to get over you."

[𝓓𝓮𝓵 @delonperc]

A narcissistic person is often:

• A victim of everything

• Responsible for nothing

• Offended by everything

• Expecting recognition without contribution

• Yet feeling entitled to everything

That’s why they often struggle in relationships.

[femiiiiii. @femiiiszn]

I'm a huge fan of “just wanted to see ur face” & “just wanted to hear ur voice” calls.