You can still be isaaq and be horrified at the mistreatment of dhulbhante people. Its not us vs them. Its us vs injustice. War has never ever been the answer. Ilaahi halda ha qaboojiyo
as a woman it's so important that you learn how to be a Problem. I know what they taught you but fuck what you heard. you will people-please your way into an early grave
Wallahi, if a woman walks out of the delivery room alive, it is a miracle, I need men to understand, If she walks out with her child alive and well, it is a great miracle. We speak about childbirth as if it is routine, but in that room, a woman stands between life and death.
Always go to the funeral. Always go to the hospital. You don't need to know what to say.
In times of profound crisis, people don't remember your words, they only remember whether you showed up for them at their lowest moment.
When I tell people I get up with my husband every morning at 4:30am to pack his lunch and make him a hot breakfast they asked me if his arms were broken so I don’t think they want to hear it.
If my daughter grows up one day, I would tell her before choosing a man, take time to understand how he was raised. His family background, the kind of father he has, how his father treats his mother. Because those things shape a man’s emotional and mental well-being, and they strongly influence the kind of partner he will become.
It’s not easy to change a man. And it’s not easy to find someone with empathy, emotional maturity, and common sense, unless he had good role models while growing up.
between 25 and 30, a man faces his hardest battles, not with the world, but with himself. you realize the mistakes you've repeated for years and start breaking each cycle, one by one. this is the age where men either transform into kings or remain slaves to their past forever.
وَلَا تَشْتَرُوا۟ بِعَهْدِ ٱللَّهِ ثَمَنًۭا قَلِيلًا ۚ إِنَّمَا عِندَ ٱللَّهِ هُوَ خَيْرٌۭ لَّكُمْ إِن كُنتُمْ تَعْلَمُونَ ٩٥
And do not trade Allah’s covenant for a fleeting gain. What is with Allah is certainly far better for you, if only you knew
We traded SubhannAllah