i think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this and only thinking about others.
i love that feeling when you talk stuff out with someone and u both become aware that neither of u were wrong. you just saw the scenario differently. talking really should be about seeing things from both perspectives, rather than the need to be right.