If I wanna go to the movies & no one else does imma go doley. If I wanna go to a concert imma go. If I want brunch & everyone flopping, I’m gon go 😂. It’s so important to be comfortable with moving by yourself. If you always wait for people, you never really gon do what you want
To adults who grew up too fast,
Your hyper-independence helped you to survive but it no longer serves the person you want to become. Some people are willing to help you + their intentions are pure. You’ll be safe if you let them in.
becoming less reactive is a huge part of growth & decreasing stress. if you let everything get you worked up, you’re damaging your mind, body & spirit.
we rlly have no control over how we’re perceived no matter how good of a person u are or how genuine ur intentions are ppl internalize u based on their own outlook on life
Offering children the opportunity to make choices and "have a say" encourages them to have their own mind and empowers them to make their own decisions. These skills come in handy when peer pressure starts to rear it's head, trust me.