becoming less reactive is a huge part of growth, and decreasing stress. if you let everything get you worked up, you're damaging your mind, body, and spirit.
It's completely valid to cut off family or friends who gossiped about you and judged you during the hardest season of your life. Protecting your peace isn't disrespect. It's self-respect.
I don’t care who gets offended by this but some men don’t actually want a good woman. They want a convenient one, someone who gives everything and questions nothing.