Jokes aside, I think people should really be more focused on the minor acts of love / care when picking a partner. A partner that won’t make you feel bad / uncomfortable in your humanness; snoring, hair, sickness, fluids, depression, grief. So important when partnering forever.
yesterday i asked my friend (an old man) why they say "pose pas de questions and not des questions " he said he didnt know and thats how French is. He called me twice at 9am to tell me he found the explanation. he's so precious🥹