Your circumstances do not define you but they will facilitate the story telling where you came from. And on days when these circumstances serve as blockades, when your time feels out of reach and beyond your control realise that there is power in your perspective ✨
So many women are out here living absolutely MISERABLE lives with their boyfriends and husbands, meanwhile single women are sleeping in peace, glowing like the sun, and minding their business.
Y'all kept telling us "find a man," but half of these men can't even manage their own emotions, lust, finances, hygiene, or loyalty. Being single isn't a curse... it's the luxury package.
Who you marry is so important. I recently lost my mom, and while I have productive days, I have a lot of low ones too. I slept in this morning, and when I woke up my husband had cleaned the house, washed my clothes, organized both our closets, and scrubbed the bathrooms.
The weight he quietly lifts off of me every day feels like proof of just how much God loves me.
This is so important. Don't move into shared spaces and walk around with, "That's just how I am" or "I wasn't taught how to do that, I didnt grow up doing this" as badges of honour. That's just evidence of a selfish brat. Noone should be labelled as a brat at their big age. Ew !!
One year ago, I left my mum’s house to live with my elder sister. I arrived as a lazy, nonchalant, stingy, unforgiving, selfish young woman. In the space of 1 year, I’ve learnt acts of service, compromise, selflessness, forgiveness, kindness, childcare, home care, and my finances got better
You are more in control of your life than you think. At any moment, you can start making better decisions. You can take accountability for your life. You can reject the victim mentality. You can refuse to place the blame on anyone else for where you are. You can be radically honest about what's required for you to dig yourself out of the hole you're in. Life begins anew the moment you accept that you can save yourself.
Bumped into a woman in Shoprite at EastPark, she goes “hey! I know you don’t remember me. You’re a doctor right? You delivered my baby! She’s 3 now! ����😅”
My job >>>>>
you might think people only need to heal from bad relationships. but the truth is people are healing from hateful parents, betrayal from friends, sibling feuds, academic problems, stressed in their works. always remind that not everything is about romantic relationships.
@Namataii Excuse me?!?! I screenshot things coz I like the smallest of things in the picture eg the colour of the paint on the wall or the song 😭now people will be thinking I'm a weirdo for taking screenshots of them. Like, I don't care about you in the picture, I like the details in it😭
Driving with your kid standing behind your seat or between the front seats hazvina kana “shine” teach your kids to sit down in the car and put seat belts!!