I don’t like all that ‘problem-dumping.’
Please, check my temperature before dumping all your problems on me- I could be having a day from hell, as well.
Or I could be having the best day ever, and now I am not -because I was dumped on. (Pause)
Let’s talk about how high maintenance friends are insensitive, self centered and unrealistic in their expectations.
I’ve always considered myself a low maintenance friend. Only thing I expect out of you is loyalty and just to be yourself, whatever that looks like.
I’m not gonna crucify you because you didn’t call me at 3:16PM on a Thursday on the dot.
High maintenance friends have a fairy tale idea of what the everyone around them should be doing, instead of letting ppl live their life and worrying about their self.
To me, it stems from not wanting to look inward and needed to find other things to distract themself from being okay with their self. They use outside sources like friendship to validate that they aren’t invisible or that they matter.
Cooking and cuddling at home. Waking up on Sundays and my house is already spotless. Having Mondays off!
Simple things like my son being old enough to talk to me about girls, what’s irritating him, watching him evolve in sports, etc.
I am not judgey much.
But one specific type of person I cannot interact with often is— women who cannot function without men, super ‘boy crazy’, can’t be alone.
They actually make me queasy!
People who don’t actively use TikTok don’t get it. I learn so many recipes, plan dates, learn make-up hacks, have made travel it itineraries, keep up with current events and watched so many relatable stories on there. Its so much more than dances, it’s just the best app ever 😟