I’ve seen a lot of takes on this, so let me turn it into something helpful.
Most times, it’s not just “insecurity” that makes a partner want to check your phone, it’s curiosity created by a change in behavior.
Little things trigger it:
•Sudden secrecy with your phone
•Being distracted but not explaining why
•Actions that look different from your usual pattern
You might think it’s nothing, but to the other person, it raises questions.
And once curiosity starts, the mind fills in the gaps.
That’s why instead of getting defensive, the smarter approach is emotional awareness:
•Explain things that could look confusing
•Be open instead of dismissive
•Offer reassurance when it’s needed
Sometimes, what your partner needs in that moment isn’t an argument, it’s clarity.
If you ignore that, suspicion grows. If you address it, it dies quickly.
Communication and reassurance will always save you more stress than silence and “it’s not that deep.”
You people don’t know where to draw the line with this PR thing. That’s why they really don’t rate y’all “twitter influencers” because it’s mostly a bunch of hungry, retards.
How much was it? 100k, 200k? Or was it “you know you’re my guy”?
Because why the fuck did you guys start spreading the wrong hashtags today? Why?
A young girl’s life was stolen from her.
The least you can do is get her name right!!!!!!!!!! Heartless lot.
Other children look forward to the last bell 🛎️ of the day that indicates the close of school. They’re excited about it because it means they get to finally go home but Ochanya didn’t have that privilege.
The poor child must have dreaded the last bell because to her, end of the school day was the beginning of the daily nightmare she was living in. To her, going home was a dreaded terror because she knew those monsters were waiting to take turns on her.
Not only was her childhood robbed from her, her humanity was, and ultimately her life 💔💔
The woman who should’ve protected her and stood by her side, failed her.
No amount of apology, or restitution can undo the evil that was done to that child. Even life imprisonment is not enough. Yet, the animals, Victor and his father have moved on to live life like nothing happened after robbing that girl off hers.
They deserve to be tried and legally put down by the law. Such beasts cannot be walking freely in society. How many more of their victims are unheard of?
#JusticeforOchanya
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