The HIV, HPV, AIDS, Herpes, & Chlamydia rate is way too damn high to be having hoes, side pieces, and unprotected sex with random people just cause you're "horny". Sex requires TRUST. You're trusting another individual with your body, and essentially your life.
I’m working on myself as a woman, I’m working on my patience, my anger, my ways, my mindset, my language, and everything.. I will be a better woman all around and that’s for ME. 💕
for a relationship to truly last, you have to make the EFFORT to understand your partner’s perspective, MOVE WITH CONSIDERATION, and stay open to growing together. yes everyone makes mistakes but it’s COMMUNICATION that determines whether you move forward or you just leave.
okay, i lied. i like flowers i dont have to ask for. i like dates that i dont have to plan, I like to be babied, i like photos of us on your social account, repost about me. i like acts of services, physical touch, quality time, and small surprises. i like being loved loudly.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
acts of service really will make me melt. idc what it is, big or small. The fact that i’m considered and thought about and you wanna make my day easier just really gets me going🥹
I have to marry somebody who takes holidays seriously. A family person. Birthdays, graduations, anniversaries, and answered prayers… everything must all be celebrated fully in my household.
princess treatment doesn’t mean he buys her whatever she want, it means he LISTENS, he PROTECTS, he LEADS, he is HUMBLE, and he communicates. He doesn’t let her go to sleep crying or upset, he doesn’t make her feel like her hard to love.
I'm an actual romantic. I want it all. Corny letters, long paragraphs professing ur love for me, dates, handholding, everything! I hate the normalized idea of bare minimum I want a reckless love story. I want to be loved loudly & unapologetically. None of that half-hearted energy
princess treatment doesn’t mean he buys me whatever i want. it means he LISTENS, he PROTECTS, he LEADS, he is HUMBLE, and he communicates. he doesn’t let me go to sleep crying or upset. he doesn’t make me feel like i’m hard to love. he is my PEACE in chaos and my HOME.
STAY AWAY from people who don’t appreciate ALL the little things you do.. like spending money you really don’t have, paying for food, giving a ride,etc even good intentioned prayers, words of encouragement, saying things to boost up confidence, listening to problems & making them your own, being the 1st to reach out.. people only care about what you can do for them & some will even take your help just to go help everybody else instead of helping who’s REALLY helping them 😒🤦🏽♀️
I’m a firm believer that if you feel stuck or depressed in life it’s because your soul is asking you to make a change or do something radically different and you’re not listening.
Someone was literally upset that I didn't attend the "No King March".... I marched my ass to the voting booth and voted for Vice President Kamala Harris... I don't believe in doing extra work when the assignment was an open book test and people failed on purpose...I'm good...
Can we stop acting like the only deal breaker is infidelity & cheating? let's please add gaslighting, lack of accountability/ communication, immaturity, manipulation, mental/physical abuse, financial instability, not accepting kids, aaannnnddd being a damn liar !!