Every quarter, pick one career move to improve. Visibility. Feedback. Documentation. Internal network. Business impact. Mentorship. Next-level presence. Do not try to fix everything at once. Careers compound through repeated moves, not one dramatic reinvention.
Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.
For the record, there’s a clear difference between being slow and having a mental health “disorder”
Being conscious and educated about shit ain’t boutta stop me from identifying a slow slaw ahh mf hytb
It was point in time where I was into shit I had no business being into, and I overheard an associate saying word for word; “I sell DRUGS” in a room full of regular working people
At that point I knew I was gone find a way to move away and completely disconnect from street sht
Your 30s is kind of weird. Some of your peers got 6 figure portfolios they’ve been putting into since their first job out of school… and some haven’t even thought of retirement yet.. some have kids.. some do not. Some are adults.. some still children mentally.
Im ngl if black people tell you something is racist and some are telling you no its not, you need to actually make an effort to educate yourself on why people are saying yes instead of immediately siding with the black people saying they dont care