I’ve started to take the ‘it is what it feels like’ approach when it comes to my life and just trust myself a lot more. Ignoring your inner voice & gut feelings can be costly.
The lesson isn’t usually to control what happens around you, but to regulate what is happening within you. We have little to no control over external factors in our lives, but the true lesson comes from within and how we choose or don’t choose to respond to situations.
People often say the right person for you will automatically know how to love you. But even wonderful people aren’t mind readers. Sometimes you have to tell people what you like and want. The right person for you might just be the person who listens, takes note, and takes action.
Maybe you continue to have a fear of abandonment because you consistently abandon yourself in order to convince others that you’re worthy of not being abandoned.
When I choose to love someone, and I stand in it completely; it’s tunnel vision. Nobody is more attractive than my person. Nobody appears better than my person. Literally nobody can compare to who I have chosen to love.