I’m driving down the street and all of a sudden I feel this person’s presence as I got closer to my stop it gets stronger. I finally parked outside my gym. 10 minutes later that person exists that building! So wild lol
I have a co-worker who never announces anything. You don’t know she applied for a promotion until she’s already in the new office. You don’t realize she bought her own place until she casually mentions “heading home to finish painting.” She doesn’t post milestones. Doesn’t crowdsource opinions. Doesn’t invite commentary.
I used to think she was secretive. That success was supposed to be shared loudly. That excitement needed an audience.
Now I see it differently.
She moves with intention. Quiet. Focused. Certain. Her plans are protected while they’re still fragile. Her joy isn’t diluted by outside noise. She lets things grow roots before she shows the world the bloom.
It isn’t secrecy. It’s discernment. It’s peace. It’s self-trust.
Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who build their lives softly, without applause, and let their results speak when they’re ready.
Just apologize when you know that you fucked up... All of that manipulative behavior and being mad at a person for being mad at you when they have a legit reason to be is just weird shit... People love to say they grown until it's time to hold themselves accountable!
Y'all, my coworker accidentally took the house keys with her on a girls' night, and her husband was at work... When she realized she was so upset, after one hour he called her. He didn't yell, didn't shout...just asked her if she arrived safely and, finally, told her: "Honey, there's a problem... You took the keys with you, so now I'm at a friend's house but that's okay don't worry. Hit me up when you're free, I'll pick you up, Enjoy your night ily.".... This is why ladies you should always choose a man who's calm & gentle 🥹
As a black person, I’m ngl, George Floyd does not ever cross my mind so idk why so many of these racists keep bringing him up as if we think he’s our savior or hero or something