Some people spent so much of their lives trying to survive that they never got the chance to learn how to swim, speak a foreign language, play an instrument, travel, or simply explore life beyond work and responsibilities. That’s a side of poverty we rarely talk about.
If you suddenly want to cut your hair, rearrange your place, or get rid of half your closet, it's your soul preparing you for a new era and needs the old energy cleared out first. Trust the pull. Change is good. Your soul is making room because something beautiful is on the way.
Uncommon advice: If you don't know what to pursue in life right now. Pursue yourself. Pursue becoming the healthiest, happiest, most healed, most present, most confident version of yourself. Then the right path will reveal itself.
In 200yrs from now, a whole new set of humans will walk on this Earth. We all will be gone. Strangers will live in your house not knowing that you 200yrs ago slept in the same room. No one will remember us. No one will visit our grave. No one will talk about us. We will just be another part of history, So no, it's not that deep.
Studying yourself is one of the most life-changing decisions you can make. When you learn why you react the way you do, what you're protecting, what you're repeating, you stop living on autopilot. Self-awareness becomes freedom.
Do not get pulled in to any of these collective discourses and media programming. All the rules are fake. Live your life in accordance with your personal needs. Honor what works for you. Trust the rhythm of your own soul, above the noise and illusions of this realm.
next year will def be my year i just need to heal from all my childhood trauma & fix my relationship with my body & stop being scared all the time & put myself out there more & become smarter & get over everything & work out more & get a masters & change like everything ab myself
Next year I hope you always have enough money to pay rent on time, buy your essentials ,invest and spoil yourself, buy convenience. Poverty is not our portion
btw in your 20's and 30’s you’ll start rediscovering the niche interests and hobbies you had as a kid. it’s very important you revisit them. your younger self was actually on to something.
idk who needs to hear this but in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you’re innocent in the story you created.
Find every single thing to be celebrated. Do this intentionally.
Life becomes heavier as time goes by. You're not gonna survive if you keep choosing to only see the dark.
one of the main reasons i'm so gentle with myself is cause i believe i've already experienced enough hardship in my life. i've already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.
Your 20s is for you to realise everyone’s on a different timeline. Some are married at 24, some won’t be in a relationship till 29. Some figure out their purpose early, some stay confused for years. And honestly thats ok