no one talks about the personality shift as you get older. where you no longer want to be impressive, you want to be rested. you want to be regulated and completely unavailable to anything that drains you
girl to girl, there is always better. better friends, better moments, better opportunities, better jobs, a better life, & better love. there is always better.
I stay away from people who avoid self reflection and accountability. If you can't keep it real with yourself, ain't no way you can keep it real with me.
you cannot get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them....even if it isn't deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. genuine consideration is key.