Even in close friendships, learn to mind your own business. If they’re not sharing something with you, it’s likely because they don’t want you to know or they’re just not ready yet. You’re not entitled to know everything happening in their life at all times.
One of my friends went completely silent for a whole YEAR. She locked in, chose God, chose sobriety, and didn’t look back. Now she’s in her new home, driving her new car, running her own hair studio/school.
When God says “detach,” you don’t owe anyone a reason. You just surrender. I never took her silence personal, and watching the blessings that followed her obedience has been beautiful.