I’m comfortable with who I am. And I know what I have to offer and bring to the table, not only my words show this but my actions prove it. So I will never be intimidated by another female when it comes to a dude I fw. Nor will I compete.
Accountability is a big thing I’m focusing on. A lot of the hurt in my adulthood is because of my own doing. Had I stood on boundaries it wouldn’t have given folks the opportunity to hurt me. So as much as blame them, I also blame me
@TGM_007 @Kaysharic Actually, I’m ok with my partner having a female bestfriend IF she was in the picture prior too, it’s presented upfront and it’s clear their relationship is exactly that and the both respect our relationship.
matching someone’s nonchalant energy when you’re naturally sweet and caring is mentally draining and damaging. you can lose yourself and never get it back
my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.
get you a partner that doesn't mind hurting people's feelings when it comes to you. imma say it again. GET YOU A PARTNER THAT DOESN'T MIND HURTING PEOPLE'S FEELINGS WHEN IT COMES TO YOU.
I genuinely can/can’t wait to be loved genuinely and properly so I can submit and actually live in my femininity. Having to act otherwise actually sucks
Sis, Until you date a provider man, you won't understand how much men love to PROVIDE for their woman. The right man will be willing to do anything for you & understand you without asking for anything. Stop asking for bare minimum. The right one won't let you beg for ANYTHING !!