Dating is so hard now. Everyone is on guard. A whole competition. Who calls first. Who is less affectionate. Act like you don’t really need them so they don’t get too comfortable with you. Etc. you can’t just be yourself? It’s very stressful.
Healthy relationships aren't always glamorous. No matter how much you're in love, you are bound to experience conflict, indifference, hurt and destabilizing moments. Precious relationships allow you to see the worst side of yourself and your partner, but still choose love.