Mother - paradise under her feet
Wife - half your deen
Daughter - shield from hell
Sister - way to Jannah
That's how Islam views women.
Then some clown says;
"her place is in the kitchen"
Someone who genuinely likes you will always leave fingerprints of their care. They may not be able to give you everything but they’ll try to give you something. You’ll notice them being honest about their limitations & attempting to repair. They’ll make room where they can.
When a man treats you right, it’s only fair you do the same for him.
He spoils you?
Give him a massage
Buy him perfumes
Buy him a watch
Take him on a picnic
Do his skincare
Take him for dinner
As long as he treats you well, never stop making him feel Loved.
I love seeing men in our generation who genuinely value building a strong family. The ones who marry the woman they love, show up for their children, and make sacrifices to create a happy, stable home. I truly believe that kind of man will always be blessed in every area of life
this.
family. friends. partners.
i’ve really learnt (the hard way, unfortunately) the importance of letting go at the first sign of weirdness or disrespect.
remove yourself.
the sooner the better.
Also, suppressing your feelings over extended periods of time can literally cause you autoimmune diseases. SPEAK UP TODAY, write that paragraph & never be ashamed of feeling.
Being able to detect another person's emotional state through behavioral cues rather than direct communication is one of the highest forms of emotional intelligence.
Cortisol is high from hating your life, sitting indoors all day, believing you’re too old & too late, not eating fiber, gossiping, caffeine maxxing, no sleep, boozing the weekend away, watching porn then resenting your partner, keeping up with current tragedies, doomscrolling
One of the first things I tell new partners is they are never allowed to swear at me, yell at me, or be mean to me. They will get one warning and then they’re cut from the team. Life is simply too short to be metabolizing intentional hurt from people who allegedly love you!!
From Dr Omar Suleiman “Never assume that the trials and hardships you are facing today are because of your past sins. Allah does not hold grudges. That is a human trait." Always think positively of Allah.Even if life feels difficult today, trust that He is arranging something better for you.Keep believing in Allah's plan
if you spend all day at a fish market, you’ll leave smelling like fish, even if you never touched one
but spend your day in a perfume shop and you’ll carry the scent even if you didn’t buy anything, that’s how environment works. it rubs off, whether you realize it or not. stay around complainers and everything starts to look negative. stay around excuse makers and growth feels optional but get around people who move with purpose, you’ll feel it.
get around people who live in gratitude, you’ll start to see differently. the scent of your environment will always follow you.
If you're dating a 10, STAY QUIET.
If you're learning a skill, STAY QUIET.
If you're hitting the gym, STAY QUIET.
If you're building a business, STAY QUIET.
KEEP YOUR PERSONAL LIFE PRIVATE.
Talk is cheap. Let your results do the talking
as i grew older, i learned that the key to surviving the day is not positivity. it's acceptance. accepting that not all days are good and happy. you will have bad days. you make mistakes. you fail. you mess up. everything’s not going to fall into place and that is completely okay
your relationship with discipline changes so much when you shift from doing things from love rather than shame. from 'i have to clean'- to realizing i deserve to have a clean home. from 'i need to work out'- to i deserve to have a healthy body. you deserve the best from yourself
This is because women are born with all of their eggs, the eggs are protected from mutations, while men are constantly making new sperm, which mutates thousands of times, because the dna isn’t protected like it is in the ovum cell. This is my fav story to tell. Haha