YALL THIS GIRL SAID, “It’s not going to hurt me seeing you with someone else because I already know how you are. But it’s going to hurt you to see me with someone else because you already know how I am going to love them” & I NEED EVERYONE TO WRITE THAT DOWN.‼️💯😮💨
The older I get, the more I realize that God’s protection often looks like disappointment at first. You thought you lost something, but God was really saving you from it. I’m so thankful for everything that didn’t go my way and every single thing that prepared me for where I am now. Thank you, God, for redirecting me.
Finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping over what you can't control. All you can do is stay solid on your end. People gonna do what they want regardless of your feelings. Don't lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong.
A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what's even worse? A man who pretends to be good, but in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim...
They weren’t lying went they said one day you just wake up and just don’t care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, peaceful detachment.
What men recently bring to the table:
- crumbs
- the bare minimum
- confusion
- stress
- mixed signals
- character development i didn't ask for
- manchild behavior
- audacity
- brain damage
- a new fear
- Lies
a cheating man is the worst. but you know what’s even worse? it’s the man who pretends to be a good man, but in reality he’s a pathological liar, lustful manipulator, and good at using the victim card.
Lately, I've been including this in my prayer: "If I'm not meant to have it, Lord, please remove the desire from my heart to want it, and help me find peace in its absence."
I think every woman hits that season where she’s not angry anymore, just aware. You see people clearly. You see yourself and actions even more clearer. You move differently. You don’t explain… you just SHIFT. That’s maturity mixed with grace 🤍
As independent as I am, I love to be babied. Acts of service are how I feel loved. I don't care about money. Just lighten my load. I'm too prideful to ask for help, but when you take the initiative to take things off my plate, I know you really see me.
stop letting people consume you. they didn't call? go to sleep. they didn't message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didn't make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone