I would literally do anything for anyone i love, but it does suck when I don't receive that same appreciation back. I ain't begging it's just common courtesy.
People will call you a shitty person and do everything humanly possible to use their words to tear you down and make you feel about yourself how they feel about you and none of those thoughts they project and say matter because the people for you, you won’t have to defend or continuously protect yourself against.
My Therapist said to me… “you spend too much time trying to get people to receive you, your heart, your love and your efforts versus paying attention to the ones who ALREADY DO. You will never have to beg to be heard, defend or protect yourself against people who are for you.”
Cutting ties with people who consistently hurt you isn’t enough, you must also cut ties with the version of you who allowed that to continue for as long you did. if not you’ll keep attract those same type of people again in different bodies
Men will never understand how hard it is for a real female to walk away from them, even after all the bullshit he's put her thru. She'll still look for one reason to try and Make shit work cause she can't see herself making it work with somebody else
Staying in a relationship just because you love somebody is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. Knowing everyday you're their favorite person is what you need. Learn to love yourself instead
You won't have to ask a man that really loves you for anything. not a date night, not no time. damn sure not no affection. when a man really desires you, he moves different for you on his own. it actually makes him happy to do the most for you