You shouldn’t be upset if someone calls you out on your negative bullshit. You should invite it. Who would you rather be friends with? Someone who constantly pities you and babies you or someone who says hey quit your shit and get it together so you can be happy.
You need people around you who’ll call you out for your bullshit. When you’re sippin dumb bitch juice, being lazy, and stubborn, you need friends who’ll check you and get you out of that funk. Not people who’ll enable you and baby you. That’s not caring.
Don’t beg or plead for someone to be friends with you or stay in your life. If they choose to drift away for whatever reason, let them. Let people gravitate towards you, don’t force them to stay in your life.