I was having a conversation with someone I know recently and they said something to me and I'd love to get other opinions on this. They argued that women who are conventionally attractive or who fit dominant beauty standards often have an easier time publicly embracing the
1974 was when the 1st woman was allowed to have a BANK ACCOUNT!😂 I am never buying into the narrative that boy-child is trailing! MEN had a headstart of ONE THOUSAND+ years. Women have only had a quasi-similar playing ground for 50 years, and we are ahead? A man is lying! NOPE!
Single mums do carry mental load but there’s no other option for them. Problem comes in when it’s two grownups in the house but only one is carrying that load. Hapo ndio resentment comes in
There’s something called mental load that women take on in a typical heteronormative relationship especially one that involves children. And if anyone has to take a backseat from their career from one reason or another, it’s usually the woman.
Cooking? She eats the food.
Cleaning? She lives in the house.
Laundry? She wears the clothes na zingine ni za watoto wake plus kiasi za husbae(hizo ndio issue)
Childcare? She's raising her own children.
It's not charity for the husband, it's mutual maintenance of a shared life.