No more “What’s so wrong with me that they’re treating me like this?” Only “I don’t like how this makes me feel, the reasoning behind their behavior does not matter and I remove myself when something makes me feel like shit. I don’t blame myself for how other people operate.”
if you’re not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it wont work for me. because im very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone & not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me