Hauwa🌻

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[Sadiq G sadiq @sadiqGsadiq]

It’s understandable and commendable to call people to order on what they post on social media or how they expose their sins.

Yet while doing so, we must remember that none of us is a saint, we are all selective sinners. Instead of speaking ill of the dead, we should pray for them ( just like we would like people to pray for us after we are gone ) or at least remain silent, and learn from their mistakes.

You gain nothing whether Allah chooses to forgive them or punish them; it adds nothing to you, so why bother?

The Prophet ﷺ warned us against mocking people’s sins and speaking ill of the dead. See? meaning by doing so, you are sinning while trying to portray yourself as perfect.

May the departed soul rest in peace. May Allah forgive their shortcomings and grant them Jannah.

May we who are still alive have a pleasant ending and leave no trace or blueprint of our sins. Ameen.

[Hauwa🌻 @_ArchitectMrs]

People say we look alike & that's the hardest part of grieving Aisha💔
Allaahummaghfir li Aisha Abdulrazaq warfa' darajataha fil-mahdiyyeena, wakhlufha fee 'aqibiha fil-ghaabireena, waghfir-lanaa wa laha yaa Rabbal-'aalameena, wafsah laha fee qabriha wa nawwir laha feehi.

[Shatu🌹 @Shatuwalle]

Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un
Allah ya ma mey wannan account din rasuwa please if you have unfinished business with her contact any of these numbers:08061340211,08165983886
Janazah by 1:00pm at sheikh Jafar Mosque Unguwan Dosa Kaduna

[Nans, Esq. @nansbello]

There are things that you will read that will just instantly reduce your IQ. This is one of them. Zawarci haramun ne? Ko fatal disease ne? Look at the way you are talking about divorcees like they are Ebola or some vile disease that people need to stay away from.

[Copy Counsel @BenYousef_E]

Almajiranci is dead.

These kids don't pray, they don't fast and sometimes, are dishonest. I had a chat with one of them on my way back from Fajr a couple of days ago. I saw him eating outside the masjid after 6 am and asked him why he wasn't fasting. Nothing. His response. He appeared to be in his early teens. You wonder what exactly they are learning in the so-called Islamiyya.

Almajiranci is a breeding ground for crimes. These kids can be easily lured with basic life necessities.
Some of these kids loiter around school environments so they could ask the privileged kids for the leftovers of their lunch. Do we think such scenarios don't impact them psychologically?

[Sayuti Idris @ArcSayuti]

If the best of mankind, whom we uphold as the ultimate role model for Muslims, helped his wives with household chores out of love, to ease their burden, then it is clear that any culture or mindset that rejects this needs reform to align with his noble example.

[₳ĐĐ₳ ĐɆɆ @hadeeezah_g]

Again … pregnancy will reveal if you’re really loved by your partner … Allah ya hada kowa da mai kaunarsa da tausayin sa Ameen.

[Hauwa🌻 @_ArchitectMrs]

It still feels unreal. Out of the 16 of us, Aisha is the first to leave

اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لَهَا وَارْحَمْهَا وَعَافِهَا وَاعْفُ عَنْهَا
اللَّهُمَّ اجعلْ قَبْرَهَا رَوْضَةً مِن رِيَاضِ الْجَنَّة��

[Hauwa🌻 @_ArchitectMrs]

@Sir__md @Shatuwalle Ameen ya rabbi

[Hauwa🌻 @_ArchitectMrs]

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajiun
We lost my sister Aisha Abdulrazak @Shatuwalle
Please if you have any unfinished business with her contact any of these numbers;08061340211,08165983886

[M💕 @MrymAbdool]

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajiun
We lost my sister Aisha Abdulrazak @Shatuwalle
Please if you have any unfinished business with her contact any of these numbers;08061340211,08165983886

[Hauwa🌻 @_ArchitectMrs]

@inv__sulaiman The thread that almost had people eating me raw😀 what a year it was

[Alh Abdulhaqq @ayhech]

Reminder for those who fast Mondays and Thursdays. No fasting today as we are still in Ayyamul tashriq, days on which fasting is prohibited. (Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawud)

[Mayowa Sheikhspeare @CoveredInWords]

You married a human, not a mind reader.

Speak.
Ask.
Explain.
Don’t expect them to just “know.”

— Maryam Lemu

[Alishah🍫✨ @Hvbibvh]

We keep getting closer to our death date everyday, may the shahadah be our final words

[Bop Daddy @falzthebahdguy]

I wouldn’t advise eating Semo in the morning…or any time of the day in fact. It shouldn’t be food 🥲

[Amaterasu: Ama-no-iwato arc @GirlTucci]

@omoeleshin__ Every mallam with his kettle.
For those who found marriage and love early
Happy for you
For those who haven’t and are still do is covering themselves
Happy for you

Everyone’s journey is different

For some, marriage is their blessing, for some it’s their curse.

[z🐉 @robpatt___]

girls NEVER tell ur husband shit no matter how close u guys are…..marriage is hard and when u fight (which u will) every secret and insecurity will be thrown in ur face

[Hadee-ya ❤️ @hafsat_dy]

It’s so hot outside and the sun is 2 planets away, on judgement it’s going to be right above our heads Ya Allah may we be part of the believers whom are shaded from the heat, Amin.

[𝐃𝐫 𝐀𝐛𝐮𝐛𝐚𝐤𝐚𝐫 𝐇𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐦𝐚 @Realoilsheikh]

Dear Husbands,

My Muslim brothers.

This is one topic a lot of people are afraid to discuss, for the fear of being tagged names or called names. But there are people like me that do not actually care what you call them, so I will speak about it.

If you happen to speak to women today, wives I mean, from relatives to acquaintances, sometimes very close relatives or even far ones, you will understand the extent of deviation we face today on the verse:

Surah An-Nisa (4:19):

"...And live with them (your wives) in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike something, and Allah makes therein much good."

Today, our society is suffering from grave neglect to the rights of wives, ignoring the importance of treating women, particularly wives, with kindness, respect, and compassion as commanded by Allãh SubhanaHu wa Ta'ala.

Do we actually know the place of respecting the rights of our wives and according them their place in Islam?

In Sahih al-Bukhari (5185) and Sahih Muslim (1218):

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:

“Fear Allah concerning women, for you have taken them on the security of Allah, and sexual relations with them have been made lawful to you by the words of Allah. You have rights over your wives, and they have rights over you…”

Every injunction of Islam emphasizes the importance of maintaining a harmonious marital relationship through and understanding and tolerance.

Today, some of us have become monsters to their wives. By Allãh, some would wish their spouses don't return home when they travel. Some are only staying because they can't afford to live on their own, or they can't return to their parents houses because they probably have none of the parent alive. This on its own is a recipe for disaster and unacceptable.

Remember, no woman is being forced on you. You saw her, went to her parent and asked for her hand in marriage. Then they agree to hand over her love, responsibilities, care, emotional support and everything to you. And by the marriage contract yiu accepted it. Do you think Allãh will not punish you for neglecting such rights?

If it is a matter of conflict or dissatisfaction, as thr man, there is always a way to resolve it. The way you dislike somethings about her, trust me there are things she doesn't like about you. The way you feel she is getting aged & may be not as attractive as she used to be, the same way you're aging and you're not as attractive as she would want you to be. In such situations, Islam encourages patience and optimism. Even if a husband dislikes certain traits in his wife, there may be hidden virtues or blessings that Allah has placed in her.

Women had limited rights in pre-Islamic Arabia. Islam came to elevate their status, protect their rights, and ensure that they were treated with dignity and care. The message of kindness and patience in marriage remains timeless and is a foundational principle for healthy relationships.

Fear Allãh in the affairs of your wives. Give them their rights. Treat them kindly with love and compassion. Do not abstain from them in bed. Do not treat them any level lower than you. Put yourselves in their shoes. If she is the one that speaks to you in that manner you speak to her, would you like it? If she's the one that treats you the way you treat her, would you accept it?

Let us fear Allãh in their affairs. Let us tell ourselves the bitter truth.

~Hidima, PhD.