crazy how peaceful life becomes when you decide you no longer have the energy to teach people how to appreciate you, respect you, respect your boundaries, treat you right, listen, communicate, resolve conflicts, honor agreements, be accountable, and have difficult conversations.
I know people like this exist but I do wish folks understood some folks spent most of their life around conflict & had to deescalate things because the adults around them wouldn’t. I shared that I don’t really like conflict & tried to explain why but this was how it was received.
I love my friend Ryan he’ll text me and say “can I talk to you for ten minutes?” and then he talks to me for like seventy one minutes and says “ok this is the last thing I’m gonna say” fourteen different times
guy with mommy issues: i like being called good boy
girl with mommy issues: this wretched earth has no place for me but i am enslaved to my flesh and kin for why do i feel obligated to exist if my only purpose is to decay
I’ve cut a lot of friends off for what they’ve said about me behind my back and they were honestly shocked I wasn’t willing to sit down with them about it….
Even though they didn’t sit down with me.. about what they’ve initially said lol. I think the ghosting gags them the most
This full moon ain’t playing it really is a test, will you go back to your old habits or reflect and move forward? This full moon allows us to see our potential and allows for us to be surrounded by the life we want. To release the bad habits. To feel not avoid.
it sounds dumb but it took me until 30 to internalize that people just say anything and it behooves you to ignore them and focus on what they do and how what they do makes you feel.
am I really the villain or did I hold you accountable for your actions? am I really problematic or did I confront you for crossing my boundaries? You only become these things when you don’t allow people to disrespect or manipulate you.
I keep my distance from people committed to self deception. If you’re lying to yourself, you’ll always misread reality & project confusion onto others. When truth is avoided, reality gets distorted. I value clarity, truth, & emotional accountability, not comfort in delusion.✍️
hey is it okay if i decide to be an active participant in my life for the first time after a lifetime of trauma making me feel like i need permission to exist