The healer also needs healing. The planner also needs surprises. The giver also needs to receive. The thoughtful also needs to be thought of. The considerate also needs to be considered.
Advice for women to be safe around men : carry a gun, pepper spray, knife. Install cameras. Share location. Check backseat. Move to a safer neighborhood. Dress modestly. Be nice. Smile. Dont get drunk. Dont go anywhere alone.
Advice for men to not harm women: