i’m finally coming to peace with the fact that you can’t keep tripping over what you can’t control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of how you feel. Don’t lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong
What is the true meaning of acceptance?
Acceptance in human psychology is a person's assent to the reality of a situation, recognizing a process or condition (often a negative or uncomfortable situation) that is a fait accompli without attempting to change it or protest it.
I need my girlies to pray for the man you love, pray for him to discern, pray for his safety, pray for his strength and most of all pray for his hustle to be fruitful.
Sometimes your prayers are the only thing carrying him.
I'm starting to see why so many people struggle with love. More people are attached to their pride and ego than they are to building healthy long-lasting relationships. It doesn't matter who's in front of you if you don't fix whatever is going on inside of you that's causing you to ruin your every chance at real love. Healthy love exists. Honesty is a kindness. Transparency is the answer. Accountability is an act of love. Submission is the only way. Your trauma isn't an excuse. Vulnerability is unavoidable. Uncomfortable conversations are non-negotiable. Someone asking you to communicate better isn't a personal attack. Your toxic behaviours are not who you are. You aren't perfect. Mistakes are normal. Grace and forgiveness are necessary.