Nobody talks about the guy who shows up during your healing stage. The one who’s calm, patient, & genuinely kind. He makes you feel safe in ways you didn’t even realise you needed.
He’s not love bombing or playing games…he’s consistent, steady, and truly sees you.
I can’t believe I’m saying this, because for most of my life I was not someone who felt or spoke this way, but-
I am finding my way toward God and it’s the best thing to ever happen to me.
Stop dating people who are not interested in your academic, personal and professional development. This life is beyond sexual intercourse, flowers, dates, pizza and KFC. Imama/ibaba must come into your life and move you from point A to point B in terms of personal development.
nobody will remember:
- your salary
- how “busy you were”
- how many hours you worked
people will remember:
- how many drunk cigarettes you smoked
- if you offered others drunk cigarettes
- if you drank just to smoke cigarettes
I take children seriously. Ask about their feelings, drop down to eye level so I can actually look them in the eyes, listen patiently even when they're rambling, remember details they share so when next I see them & bring it up, their eyes light up because they feel seen & known