i saw a girl on tiktok who said “accountability is so important to me. nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match” felt this to the core.
Exactly.
Once you have to ask, it loses meaning.
Because love, effort, and appreciation should be felt not requested.
If I have to remind you, it’s no longer your choice it’s my demand.
And that changes everything.
Real connection doesn’t need prompting. It shows up on its own.
heavy on...i ain't even mad at you. that's just who you are. that's your character. you will never change. be that, but i won't ever deal with it again.