i should be clear on what makes me uncomfortable on here huh ๐ญ if u support a dsmp member or are a fan of them pls dont interact :) except ppl who only like ranboo.. but yall r on thin fucking ice. j dont be a shitty person <3
@muttreloaded@trashypink_@emptyskygirl this!!! is!!! exactly!! my!! point!! if people are so okay with assuming the worst out of ppl with mental disorders just bc of a few bad experiences, how much longer until they start generalizing other communities?? NO ONE should be assumed as bad bc of something they cant help!
@trashypink_@emptyskygirl yea of course, but hearing โthese peopleโ when its ppl who struggle the same way i do is disheartening, im no better than most people with bpd, i think most are just so tired of the stigma, some to the point of embracing it, & some use it to excuse shit behavior
@enyasphere@trashypink_@emptyskygirl the point was ppl with the same disorder understand each other better than ppl without it (yeah no shit?? this doesnt even apply just to bpd either??) & that some relationships can be unhealthyโฆ? what else am i missing???? literally what else??
@enyasphere@trashypink_@emptyskygirl yeah weโre not children, so idk why ur acting as if every relationship like this has one person struggling & the other takes care of that struggling person. my whole point was there CAN be healthy relationships, this doesnt happen with bpd only either??
@enyasphere@trashypink_@emptyskygirl like yea ofc theres a deeper understanding but that doesnt mean its the only way you can understand someone?? communication, research, & working things out are parts of a relationship. no one has to date someone they dont understand but ppl that dont have it CAN understand
@trashypink_@emptyskygirl thats awful & you dont deserve that! it is exhausting & i understand where ur coming from. ppl that have literally ruined my life & mental state had bpd, but i would never assume anything of someone just because of a disorder they have. u can be cautious, but saying we ALL suck?
@trashypink_@emptyskygirl โdont be offended, im just saying i think everyone with the disorder you have sucks bc ive heard a lot of bad experiences with bpdโ like what? i could have the worst experiences w a certain group of ppl & not auto assume they fucking suck, bc not everyone with bpd is the same?
@enyasphere@trashypink_@emptyskygirl why? you shouldnโt have to seek out someone with the exact same disorder to be understood & have a healthy relationship & frankly ppl dont have to! bc its possible! ur preferences are urs & thats fine but just bc it works for u doesnt mean it does for the rest of us
@enyasphere@trashypink_@emptyskygirl no theyโre not but u said it was the only point u were trying to make while not even mentioning it in the reply that started this shit so i dont see how its relevant??????
@enyasphere@trashypink_@emptyskygirl literally what are u yapping about bc thats not what ur og reply said at ALLLLL LMFAOOOOO???? believe it or not people without bpd can actually learn & listen to their partner with a disorder like mine does bc im not dating a loser who doesnt try to understand me LOL
@enyasphere@trashypink_@emptyskygirl i actually dont think its wrong to not want all people with a disorder to be generalized bc of some bad people! or do you think we should think all ppl with a disorder suck & are self centered bc of someones experience with a few people with it? what sounds better??
@trashypink_@emptyskygirl โppl with bpd hurt me so everyone with it sucksโ you realize everyone is different, in a different stage of recovery & in a different stage of mind. ur experience sucks for sure but to add to the negative stigma around a disorder that comes from being treated like shit??
@bugsforbrains i understand why ppl are upset but also a wheelchair in the PIT at a sleeping with sirens concert sounds extremely dangerous, not only for the person using it but for people around them ๐ญ theres no way for the venue to ensure their safety in that shit show