You should have things you don't do, places you don't go to, substances you don't take, words you don't say
By all means, have Principles and Standards.
Be the only one doing the calling, texting and spending.
Placing her on a monthly allowance.
Sending money to her parents and siblings.
My papa no raise mumu.
I do not ever give a woman more than one missed call.
Women are always with their phones so if she doesn't take your calls, its almost always intentional.
Whenever you are ready, you will return the one missed call or we both move on with our lives from there.
Once you realize that anything can happen; sickness, death, lose your job... Literally, anything in the blink of an eye, you become very humble. Tables turn and that's how crazy life can get.
Always stay humble, and be grateful.
King treatment or NOTHING.
Period.
Stop accepting:
mixed signals, dry replies, half effort, and conditional loyalty
You either valued properly or you leave.
When you meet a girl that grew up without the presence of a masculine man in the house, you must know
It always shows. It can’t be hidden. You’ll see it and you’ll take off
Men who send women money for no reason are the ones destroying the dating market. They’ve trained women to expect payment just for being in a relationship rather than mutual affection and effort.
"Build with a man" connotes a partnership.
Hence, if the 'building project' succeeds, man and woman share the credit
But if it fails, responsibility for its failure is attributed to only the man.
Somebody will marry this one one day too, and refer to her as 'my partner'
Are you always this foolish or just a terrible human being? This classism in Nigeria is why we can't move forward.
In your high mindedness and desperate brownnosing to your colleague, you actually thinks she does him a favour giving him N1k tip for sending him on errands. It is not his duty to get her lunch. She can as well get up and go get the lunch herself. Why would you expect a security guy to use his money to buy your drink? That N1k is not a favour. It is payment for service rendered. If you actually had respect people regardless of their position, you won't be spilling this nonsense.
If your colleague is foolish, must you be foolish too? Abi all of you are stupid in your organization? Your responses all over the comments gets more annoying and embarrassing as if you dropped your brain somewhere. You are an extremely very terrible human being.