You discover your partner of two years still has intimate, old photos of their ex on a hidden drive. They say it's "just memory clutter" and mean nothing. Do you make them delete them immediately, or trust that it's innocent and let it go?
Unpopular opinion:
Being a good person doesnβt mean you have to keep giving people access to you.
Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is become unavailable.
@tramy2468 And thatβs exactly why it feels so rare. When you find it, you realize how much of what you called βloveβ was really just trying to make something work.
Be honest.
Would you rather be loved deeply by someone youβre not compatible with,
or be with someone youβre compatible with but the feelings arenβt as strong?
Which one would you choose?