Half of the time, the “peace” a lot of men ask for when they talk about wanting a partner that brings peace is silence and acceptance when they misbehave or act disrespectfully.
Unfortunately, I am a girl who takes words to heart ! So yes, I remember every little thing you said & it stuck with me, whether it was good or bad !
They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.
Can I ask you men a question?
If you meet a woman who clearly has a lifestyle she enjoys, she dresses well, takes care of herself, loves going out, traveling, trying new things, making memories, why do you pursue her just to bring absolutely none of that energy into her life? why come in talking about, "Well I wanna see you, but I don't really like to go out like that, and then immediately start trying to shrink her into your comfort zone.
Why?
If you're not a man who enjoys dates, experiences, or putting in effort to make woman feel special, then go find someone whose idea of quality time is sitting in silence and staring at the wall.
Because that woman-the one out there living, laughing, glowing-is not for you.
And no, that doesn't mean spending money recklessly, it means showing up in ways that enhance her life, not dim it.
A woman can be completely obsessed with you then BOOM….she’s detached because you played with her feelings and thought you were bigger than the program.
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.
They were right when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. There’s no warning or dramatic shift. Just a quiet, peaceful detachment.
The most underrated act of kindness is simply letting people be. Let them mispronounce a word, talk too much about a show they love, or get excited about something you don't quite understand. Everyone has something that lights them up, let them shine, even if it's not your thing.
I woke up at 3am with a shaky heart, my mind wandering, but I kept murmuring, “The Lord is good and kind to me.”
By 5:30am, I joined morning prayers. The peace that came was powerful, my mind calmed instantly, and I couldn't even recall what had kept me awake.
I recommend prayer🛐
i have no desire to be rich so i can buy a rolex or a lamborghini.
i want to be rich so i can control my time and go to the gym at 3pm on a monday.
sit at a cafe and relax for an hour on a rainy afternoon.
so i can cook meals at home with fresh ingredients.
spend on my family and friends without worrying about a budget.
that's my idea of a rich life, not the fake consumerist idea shoved down my throat.
Anyone who can be unkind to you while fully aware you’re dealing with death, illness, or profound stress isn’t just abusive, they’re showing you exactly how dark their character is.