the gag is soooo many cis straight women will come into queer spaces because they feel safer but they haaaaate extending that same openness the other way around
If being cisgender is so natural, why do you have to maintain its stronghold on the culture and the world? If it’s so natural, why must it constantly be enforced? Why are you so threatened?
Unless…
all i can say is live. you have to live. if you’re trans, queer, a woman, bipoc, disabled, an immigrant: you must live. we have to support each other. we have to be visible and loud if and when we can. and above all else we have to live
open your fucking eyes and recognise the pattern; they attacked during the super bowl, the grammys, the oscars and once again now during the met gala, all these westernised distractions so they can continue committing their cruel and inhumane genocide on the innocent people of 🇵🇸
yes, i cannot keep all of my friends safe and I can't undo the long trajectory of harm inflicted on the universe. but i’d like to stay alive and keep trying to make my own corner of this tragic spinning pebble as clean as i can.
he can’t even have privacy in his grief because palestinians have to record and broadcast everything for even the opportunity to be believed. these are the worst moments of people’s lives and we force them to share them over and over so that hand-wringing politicians might act
Release yourself from the desire to see someone come into epiphany of realizing how much they actually love you. This is your life. When we think of love as a fantasy, we think we need to go through motions in order to be authentically loved. Love is not a fantasy. It’s real.
Being loved is not something out of romantic fantasy—it’s real. What’s the fantasy is thinking you can successfully convince someone into loving you. You deserved to be adored. Right now, as you are.
I don’t think of unrequited love as something desirable or even poetic. I think choosing to sit in unrequited love, choosing to see love as a finite resource, is the easiest way to drain your life force.