this is partly why btw.
if a Black man isn’t lined up clean 24/7/365 yall clown him like you do Black women if her braids have even a thousandth of a centimeter of new growth. you’re kind of pushing these people into other communities
When you in a serious relationship, you’re suppose to move differently. Yeah you grown you can do whatever you want, but certain things are out of respect you have for your partner! It’s not about being controlled or about your partner being insecure it’s a respect thing.