The older you get, the less it's about trust issues and more about pattern recognition. You've seen it all before, and you know exactly how it plays out. People don't always lie, but patterns never do.
Hearing the peoples voices I read books about is so surreal interesting and really cool. They never sound like what I imagine or expect them to sound like LOL.
When a man likes you he talks to you everyday and apparently when you start to like him back he is very busy and can't talk at all. That's how it works.