The unforgiving person is the closest thing to a “good person,” even more so than the forgiving or empathetic person.
A forgiving person is capable of forgiveness because he finds it easy to understand the behavior of those who offend him. This understanding is a function of possessing the capacity to act in a similar manner as those who offend him. He too is capable of hurting someone, and he knows it.
However, a man who is incapable of forgiving people is equally repelled by offending them. He has a rigid but consistent ethical stance: he will not hurt, and he will not forgive when he is hurt.
His lack of agency to be cruel to people mandates his lack of understanding for cruel character and thus makes him unforgiving of it. He will not forgive you for doing unto him what he cannot do to you.
Right there is a good person.
Unrelated but Nobody claps for a man while he is building. His Family doubts him & friends disappear. Then one year, results speak. And everyone acts like they believed in him.