Messi is a dangerous player. If you watch that first goal again, you’ll notice he deliberately delayed the pass to Enzo until he had drawn every England player to himself. Only then did he release it. My God. It really is true that no one sees the game like he does.
People with principles defend what’s right, even when it’s unpopular. If you won’t defend the truth because of gender bias, you’re simply a spineless hypocrite who stands for nothing. That’s a pitiful way to live.
The man must be kind from the beginning
But the woman's kindness has to be 'unlocked'
And until he 'unlocks it', she will be unkind, even while he is kind.
Good luck to everybody
1. Read every day. Even 20 to 30 minutes a day compounds into dozens of books a year. Read across subjects such as psychology, history, philosophy, economics, biographies, and literature. I have recommended some books for us to read throughout the year. The list is pinned to my profile.
2. Learn to communicate well. Improve your writing, speaking, and listening. The ability to express ideas clearly is valuable in every area of life.
3. Become emotionally resilient. Accept criticism without taking it personally, learn from failures, and don't let temporary setbacks define you.
4. Cultivate curiosity. Ask questions, challenge your assumptions, and remain open to changing your mind when presented with better evidence.
5. Be reliable. Keep your promises, arrive on time, and follow through. Reliability builds trust faster than charisma.
6. Develop discipline. Do what needs to be done even when you don't feel like it. Motivation comes and goes. Discipline is what produces results.
7. Protect your time. Reduce mindless scrolling, avoid unnecessary arguments, and say no to commitments that don't align with your priorities.
8. Build meaningful relationships. Surround yourself with people who challenge you to grow.
9. Manage your finances. Spend less than you earn, build an emergency fund, invest consistently, and avoid unnecessary debt.
10. Take care of your health. Lift weights, do some cardio, sleep at least 7 to 9 hours, stay hydrated, and eat a balanced diet. A healthy body supports a sharper mind.
11. Reflect regularly. Journal, review your week, identify what worked, what didn't, and what you'll do differently.
Do have a great week ahead 👍
And how is the man supposed to know how much you value him?
Oh, I forgot. I guess it doesn't matter because it's always about women. Every single time, it's one expectation after another about what a man should do, and almost never the other way around. Yet many women still want equality with the men they place all these expectations on. 😂
- King Tonto
- Qing Madi
Women adopt masculine titles BECAUSE the masculine is a superior state, and they subconsciously affirm that superiority by adopting male honorifics.
You do not see men doing the equivalent unless that man is gay and thus, spiritually feminine.
That (subconcious) recognition of their inferiority is also why they mock men with 'princess'
So they adopt masculine titles as an attempt at self-elevation. And assign feminine titles to men as an attempt at derogation
And in doing so, inadvertently affirm that they are inferior to men.
Who's the 'misogynist' now?
I just witnessed the miracle of a crying baby latch onto a breast and, within seconds, all his tears vanished. I cannot say I am any different; if anything, I envy him. There have been moments in my life when I was down and out that the only thing that could have restored me would have been the forceful placement of a tit, or even two, in my mouth.
Ronaldo was basically non-existent in the first half. I understand that age has dulled him significantly but, contrast his game with Messi’s. Look at how Messi influenced the game yesterday, then compare it with how absent Ronaldo has been in this one and ask yourself if this GOAT debate is not one we have kept alive out of habit rather than honesty.
1. Women began complaining about "unpaid labour" just as men started taking on more household chores.
2. Women began divorcing their husbands at unprecedented rates just as men became more involved in childcare.
3. Birth rates fell below replacement level just as men increasingly took on traditionally female roles.
Heterosexual attraction thrives, among other things, on polarity.
Men do men things, women do women things.
That is the dynamic that maximises attraction.
"I change nappies and contribute significantly to childcare" sounds noble and commendable in theory.
But in practice, it kills a woman's attraction for her man and transforms the marriage from one of complementary masculine and feminine energies into something passionless and devoid of romantic tension.
Again, attraction depends on polarity. Where polarity is weak, attraction inevitably suffers.
Women won't tell you this because they are shortsighted and don't have a clue of what is good for them long term.
If something looks cute, makes them feel good in the moment or satisfies an immediate need, they will demand it, regardless of any adverse structural effects it may have overtime.
But I will tell you, men who have tried that experiment over a long enough period will tell you...
That when gender roles are blurred, attraction inevitably, inexorably, inescably suffers.
Do not mistake what sounds good, for what actually works.
You have been warned
If I were a single man approaching middle age, I wouldn’t spend my time telling people that marriage is shit or that women ain’t shit. For one, those are unnecessary lies; for another, they’re resentment-driven poison to the soul. That said, I’d remain sceptical of commitment in societies increasingly hostile to men and family life. My middle age would be devoted to the simplest and finest things within my reach, while I pursued side quests worthy of a man—goals so ambitious they might just kill him.
This gender war thing is actually disgusting. You speak well about your partner as a man and fellow men come for you. They do not want you speaking positively about women. In their understanding, women are vile creatures and men should treat them as such.
On the other hand, if you’re a woman and you speak well about your partner, fellow women come for you. “Men are bad. Men are evil. Men are incapable of good.”, they wail. Meanwhile, in real life, men and women are falling in love, getting married, raising children and generally getting on with life.
Anyway, I have made it a point of duty to approach gender issues from a balanced and nuanced perspective. Both genders are capable of good. Both are capable of terrible things. Both possess strengths. Both possess flaws. Expecting me to pile onto one gender to make the other happy is akin to expecting Tinubu to improve the country because the citizens are complaining.
Many of you want great relationships but all you want to do is take.
There’s nothing great that comes out of always taking. Even friendships but you want life long partners while being a leach.
If you like stay online and let people deceive you that you are some sort of prize that no one can get tired of.