It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.
Unfortunately, I do want a provider. I do want a protector. I do want a leader. I do want a dominant man. I do want emotional maturity and effective communication. I do want mental stability. I do want to be spoiled. I do want self awareness. I do want clingy, obsessed and safe. I do want someone who chooses me every time. And nobody is going to make me feel bad for wanting those things in a partner.
there are men who are fine as fck, providers, intelligent, fly, family oriented, & will put everyone in their place about you. don't ever let anyone convince you that you can't have that.
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
If you’re extremely stressed out but also keeping a positive attitude because you know this too shall pass, you are already winning. Don’t wait until you reach your goal to be proud of yourself. Admire your resilience. Things aren't perfect but there's progress. Keep going.
This October is about to be the greatest comeback season of your life. You will catch yourself saying this a lot this month "wow I prayed for this. It is here. It's actually happening."
Today I read that butterflies rest when it rains because it damages their wings. It's okay to rest during the storms of life. You'll fly again when it's over.
Driving to the gym vibing to @russdiemon and obviously the car in front of me at the light was not a fan & rolled the windows up. Like how can you not like him?????? 😭
At some point you gotta realize you'll never have peace and be unf*ckwithable if you keep taking things personally and having an emotional reaction to everything that's said to you. A person who doesn't take things personally and pauses before reacting is a very powerful person.
From this Solar Eclipse ♈︎ to the next Full Moon♏︎ in 2 weeks do everything in your power to make any transformations you can & cut all the chords blocking your path.
lotta people don’t realize how transactional they view relationships….buy me this and I’ll give you that….that’s a transaction and if that’s you’re thing, cool but you can’t trust people like that…they can always be “bought” by the highest bidder
emotionally reciprocal relationships > transactional ones