A lot of us doubt our potentials, and kill opportunities before we even get them.
Moving on,I’ll not be part of anything called imposter syndrome,I’M GOOD!📍
There are a lots of proofs to show that I am.I’m confident that I will get it right where there is room for improvement.
24th January 2022. A day I can never forget.
I went to eat at Buka Hut at gbagada, just to treat myself and have a good day.
Halfway through, my PERIOD came unexpectedly… and I had no pad, no backup, nothing.
I didn’t even know.
After eating, I decided to get ice Cream, because why not spoil myself a little more?
As I stood up, I noticed people staring… but I didn’t understand why. It wasn’t until I got to the ice cream stand that a guy walked up to me quietly and said: “Excuse me… your backside is stained. Please, take my jacket to cover up.”
In that moment, I wanted the ground to open and swallow me. But his kindness… it calmed me.
No noise. No embarrassment. Just respect.
He gave me his jacket, wrapped it around me, and even offered to order me an Uber home.
I insisted on paying, but honestly, I was just grateful someone chose kindness over ridicule.
I asked how I’d return his jacket. He smiled and said, “Don’t worry about it.” But I took his number anyway…🥰
Today, that same man is my DARLING HUSBAND.😍
And funny enough, Buka Hut is still our favourite spot till today. ❤️
Sometimes, love doesn’t start with butterflies.🦋
Sometimes, it starts with kindness in your most vulnerable moment.✌🏼💖
As a sexually active man, please pity your partners. 🙏
When you use public toilets, rinse your penis.
Before you sit, lace with toilet papers.
Use one boxer per day.
Your penis care is also important to maintain her vagina's PH. You're the one causing the fishy smell.
Hi northerners, come and read, but make sure you do so, with open minds and sincerity in your hearts.
“₦1 billion was paid to bandits by the present government of Kaduna. They are paying bandits. They apologise to bandits. If the governor or anyone in the government disagrees, let them deny it, we have the evidence.”
— Nasir El-Rufai
“Bandits are our heroes inside the bush. We don’t want a government that will kill them; we want a government that will negotiate with them. If we negotiate with them, they’ll protect our bush.”
— Sheikh Ahmad Gumi
“We went to Sheikh Gumi’s house. We contributed ₦800,000. We pleaded with him, especially me and some other women. We told him we are widows. That he should help us. He said we should go and bring money. We said we don’t have any more money. He said the ₦800,000 is just for his transport fare to go and meet them.”
— One of the mothers of the kidnapped girls
These statements and many other ridiculous ones were made openly. Publicly. Confidently. And yet, there was no united outrage, no collective condemnation from leaders or communities in the North, some of your social media influencers were silent too. In fact, many people even defended these narratives, as if the rest of the country is blind to the suffering, kidnappings, killings, and chaos happening daily.
But the moment “The Herds,” a movie reflecting the painful reality of insecurity, was released, suddenly you people found your voice. Suddenly there was anger. Suddenly there was unity, but against a film, not against the terrorists destroying lives.
Let’s be honest:
The majority of terror attacks Nigeria has endured for over a decade, from kidnappings, banditry, Boko Haram, ISWAP all have come and operating primarily from the North. That is a fact nobody can deny.
But instead of confronting these extremist groups head-on, holding leaders accountable, and collectively rejecting the ideology that fuels them, too many people remain silent or worse, offer excuses.
Until Northern political leaders, traditional rulers, religious voices, and community influencers collectively stand up and say:
“This is wrong.”
“This is not Islam.”
“These criminals do not represent us.”
…then the world will continue to associate the region with terrorism and those who excuse it.
No region, tribe, or religion deserves that kind of stigma. But only the people from within can change the narrative.
Nigeria cannot heal if the North does not confront the extremists hiding among its own people.
And Nigeria cannot be safe until all of us, North, South, East, West, Christian, Muslim, unite against those who profit from bloodshed.
And yh, female vendors do it the most , it is becoming extremely ridiculous and annoying
If you are a vendor and you do this thing , you need to do better , and if it is mistake as you guys always say , you still need to do better . Stealing my 90k cannot give you peace. 🤝
@Bybit_Official You guys should sanitize your vendors/sellers, of 10 vendors 8 of them will not send your complete money until you ask…
If you are not looking as buyer trust me to that you’d fall for it .
Imagine your money is 433,755 and they send you 343,755.
Frontend devs make good backend devs.
But backend devs don't make good frontend devs because they often lack patience.
That's why you should do at least some frontend before jumping to backend.