I started asking this question and most people say they’d tell their teen self to pursue an interest more diligently-
“Finish that story I started writing when I was 13”
“Stick with college crew & become an elite athlete”
“Finish that novel, work thru the unexcellent parts.”
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1/19 When you were a kid, how much did your parents know about what really mattered to you?
And if you’re a parent or a teacher how much do you know about what really matters to your kids?
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19/19 And this network effect of knowing and showing what really matters to each other, is just as important in a family, when each family member is able to say: This is me. This is you. This is us.
18/19 When this happens, it kicks off a network effect. Why? Because an adult—whether a teacher, youth group counselor or workshop leader—who understands what really matters to a student can then wisely guide that student toward their goals.