i hope i never date a narcissist again. My feelings were invalidated all the time. Everytime i spoke up on how i felt, it would be an argument. Everything i did was wrong but they was always right and doing everything "perfectly". I would react to how they would treat me and they would call me crazy & childish... shiiiitttt looking back at that situation that person made me get out of character so many times & hurt me the most. MADE ME LOOK LIKE THE BAD GUY. AND nos the disrespect i dealt with is crazy.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.