literally 75% of my nieces , nephews, & cousins are born in October and i really don’t want my baby to share a bday with someone idc 🤣🤣 but it’s so possible.
sounds like two people responsible and self-aware enough to know what they’re equipped to handle, and opted to avoid bringing a child into the world who would suffer and they would resent. 🤷🏾♀️